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Angelique's avatar

Oh honey, this juicy invitation pleases me no end. I can hear your voice as you offer it up to us readers. As you know, your "master class" in Unmute, a few Unmutes ago, brought me here initially, and I've stuck around thanks to all the sexy, taboo stuff. And the normal stuff, too -- your struggles, your musings. It's all so relatable and I drink it up.

How thrilling that you're exploring sexual and romantic intimacy with women now! I too mixed things up in my late 20s; after exclusively dating women in Phoenix, Northampton and Seattle, I started dating MEN when I moved to Ecuador at 29. Dating may be too generous a word. I didn't want to join a soccer team to get laid. And I wanted to get laid. And damn, was it easy. And fun!

My life has shifted radically over the last 20 years, and sex is far less a part of my personal equation, much to everyone-in-my-world's surprise. But I do enjoy peering through your eyes as you explore and articulate the curious nature of it all; you do it so brilliantly.

Grateful for you. xoxo-AvH

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Oooh I am learning and unlearning so much! I am Itzel, now a full time photographer as I recently quit my corporate job, I feel free and excited, and at the same time leaving the life I lived for over 9 years feels a bit terrifying.

Your creative journey has inspired me a lot to keep taking action towards the point I wanna be in life and your sex and dating stories are my favorites! I love the honesty and how open the topics are, makes me question myself around my own ideas and experiences.

Keep it up Tash!

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